CONSIDER THIS...BLAME Does NOT Work.
---Why can't we blame anyone for where we are at? What if we are a ''Victim of Circumstance'' and through no fault of our own, we are in a down and out situation? Or even not as dramatic as all that, somebody has done something to us. Remember, it is ANGER that causes us to BLAME. And we experience anger when we feel someone or something is responsible for our ''needs'' and ''desires'' not being met.
---Well, though, it is important to acknowledge how one feels and where one is at, one must take Personal Responsibility for his own actions and where he is at. In some cases, this is much more easy to say than do. Some of us have been through some very ''trying'' times. Nonetheless, this is how life works. When we are stuck at a point due to a trauma, etc., we are like a Record [If you don't know what a Record is, ask someone old] that is stuck playing the same passage over and over and over again. In our rehabilitation, we hope we will once again see this and get over this hurdle.
---It is important to get over these things. It is like when we push the record forward. We must take steps to continue living beyond this point. To repair the ''damage,'' we can, acknowledge the Anger, FORGIVE ALL INVOLVED, and move on. Being chronically the ''victim'' is like having our own dog bite us. It happens, but is unusual, unless WE are treating him wrong. Check what you're doing.
---You, yourself, don't have to react angrily. It is not always an easy thing to do, but holding on to anger interferes with '''our'' natural flow. A grudge, revenge, getting even or anything of the like, is the same thing. If it helps, remember that the perpetrator has his own day of reckoning and gets his ''Just Desserts.'' He will face whatever is needed for him to continue on, as he is important, too. What goes around does come around. It does no good to REPEAT the negativity of others.
---There are many ''stuck'' individuals on our Planet, and blame plays a large part in putting and keeping us there. It is really nobody else's fault for us being where we are at. No matter how much we want it to be. We are All Stuck until we are Free. We can only 'fake' it for so long. It really doesn't matter whose ''fault'' it is, this, whatever it is, is the situation. Unravelling who we are is much more fun and rewarding than being concerned with how right we are, even if we feel we happen to be.
---Stuckness is a Suffering and is something we deal with until we learn how to let it go. It is nobody's ''job'' to Love us, but it is ''OUR'' job to Love everybody. This saying is True. To have a friend, be a friend. Remember, everyone and everything has value. Maybe we should examine things a little more kindly and closely. We must learn not to get ''so'' angry or transform the anger we do have into something more positive, and forgive, so we can move on.
---There is a law in Physics that states: If something in flux is left alone it will reorganize to its Original state. The more we have our anger dealt with, see where it comes from and see it as it is, we don't blame and we unstick. We are back to basics, as it were. We are more in our '''Original'' state when we LOVE and FORGIVE.
---When we blame, we are stuck. Unstick, Forgive, be Truthful with yourself, and ''move on.'' Acknowledge how you feel about the situation that sticks you, and do yourself a favor. Realize, that if there is blame involved it will stick you. even when it is you, yourself, you blame. Best we can do is-LEARN from it and CONTINUE. You Have LIFE'S PERMISSION. Be Well.
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